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I am a certified birth doula, educator, and placenta specialist. As a doula, my intention is for families to feel safe, supported, informed, included, empowered, and respected in their choices and experiences.  From hospitals, home, or the birthing center; to natural, medicated, VBAC, or cesarean, I am comfortable adapting to the environment of the families I am supporting.

 

My philosophy is that “If you don’t know your options, you don’t have any…you don’t know what you don’t know.”  To help clients prepare, I prioritize transforming (or eliminating) fear, reframing programming that surrounds birth, building a fierce confidence and trust in the process, and developing a healthy intuition.  It is my goal to support families by sharing the physical, emotional, informational, and practical tools to build the birth experience unique to each family.

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I incorporate massage, reflexology, essential oils, breathing and mindfulness from yoga, and my medical experience into the experience of my clients for a holistic approach.

It is my intention to nurture the mind, body, and soul connection. By establishing ongoing relationships and trust with clients, we can work together to provide the best care possible, based on each clients' individual needs. I truly believe that everything we need already exists within ourselves.  

Strength and wisdom are innate in all of us.

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As your doula, I provide phone, text, and email support, and will be on call for you 24/7 in the weeks before and during labor.  Our time together will include at least two prenatal preparation sessions, continual labor and birth support, & one postpartum visit. 

P.R.E.P is my newest and most exciting offering! 
Process. Release. Embody. Power
is an emotional processing support experience. 
Click below to learn more!!

What is a Doula?

A doula provides continuous, unbiased, non-medical support before, during, and in the hours after labor. They help you make informed choices by providing evidence based information about the birth you desire, and advocate for those choices to be respected. We prepare for the birth together, discussing positioning options, comfort measures and pain coping techniques, breathing, massage, and much more. Whether you are planning a hospital, home, or birth center birth, a doula will be there to support your needs.

 

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Why do I need a Doula?

It is known that the presence of a doula helps to:

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~decrease cesarean rate by 25%

~increase likelihood of spontaneous vaginal birth

~10% decrease in request and use of pain medication

~ 31% reduction in dissatisfaction rates

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We provide constant emotional and practical support to you AND your partner, working together- not to replace your partner, but to ensure a unique experience for everyone.

 

"Published data indicate that one of the most effective tools to improve labor and delivery outcomes is the continuous presence of support personnel, such as a doula." - American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), 2014

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Do you have more questions about doulas and birth?

Check out the FAQ's, HERE

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VBAC Certified through The VBAC Link

Placenta Services

Include:
Capsule Preparation
Tinctures
Art Prints
Umbilical Keepsakes
Training to Become an Encapsulator, HERE

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Supporting families in the greater Buffalo, NY region, including but not limited to, Gowanda, Fredonia,  Springville, Hamburg, East Aurora, Elma, West Seneca, Cheektowaga, Buffalo, Tonawanda, Amherst, Clarence, Kenmore, Niagara Falls, Batavia, Warsaw; and families of all ages, ethnicities, and gender affiliations.  VBAC certified through VBAC Link

Great Buffalo and surrounding areas of WNY

716.566.8050

melrae619@yahoo.com

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Melissa sets a tone that is comfortable and nurturing, all before she drops her knowledge and skill into the mix. Her demeanor, her attention and her focus is second to none. She is compassionate, curious and holds one accountable to their goals. She asks the right questions and keeps the path flexible yet still moving forward. Working with Melissa, I discovered ways to slow down and take more time to understand the why behind my desire to act. She helped open my mind and heart to adopting new processes that are in better alignment with who I want to be."

~ Amy P,  Life Coaching Client

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I had never worked with a life coach before and I immediately saw the benefits. If I’m being truly honest, working with a life coach has been more productive than mental health counseling. That is not to say MHC is not important. This is only true for me and wouldn’t necessarily be the case for anyone else. I like having things to actively work on. I need to feel productive, that I am moving forward. Life coaching gets right to it. Melissa is very skilled at holding you accountable in the most non threatening way. She is firm but loving. She is wonderful at holding space AND challenging your beliefs. She keeps you focused and redirects you to get back on the path that leads to your desired destination. I can’t speak more highly of Melissa. She is an emerging star in this field!"

~ Lisa B, Life Coaching Client

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"I'm just in awe at how empowered I felt! I really loved that I had guidance from Melissa ahead of time to prepare myself mentally because that was a huge component  to the positive outcome I had.  Those key principles we worked through to eliminate fear, tension, control have actually been super helpful during postpartum life.  I'm so thankful to know how to manage that!"

~Erica C., First Time Mom/ Doula Client

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"If I didn't have these weekly classes I don't know how I would have made it through this pregnancy.  It literally saved my emotional and mental health!  Melissa's techniques, mantras, and overall kindness helped me in so many ways and I cannot begin to properly thank her  As a first time mom to be, no one can ever prepare you for the up and down emotional and mental rollercoaster you can experience. This class, the other mamas, and Melissa provided support that I didn't even know I would need, but am so thankful I found.  I know that physically and mentally I'm more prepared for labor and birth than without this class.  (Update: The doctor and labor & delivery nurses give Melissa a BIG THANK YOU- they said they were impressed with how calm I was able to be, and how focused my breathing was!)"

~Remy M., First Time Mom, Yoga Student

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